GROWING TOGETHER WITH THE RIGHT PERSON.

Sometimes as christian youths, we come to the cross road of thinking that, the priceless treasure(the lady or guy you are in a relationship with) we met by God's grace is a hindrance to our growth in God because we tend to focus more on them each day.I mean we always want to hear from them, check up on them, call them and others but when we come to te state of realizing that we are spending lots of time with them, we come to the conclusion that, there has to be a break up.

Well i made such mistake in the past but i realize that, at times it takes the paying of price to get certain people to be your love ones. Most of these people come into our lives to help you and so therefore there must be the need to grow together with them.

Pray with them if you have to, study with them if you have to, anything that you do to help you grow, do it with them. I don't think that would actually make you feel that they are a hindrance or threat to your growth in God.

On second thought, growing together with someone is like building a house with that person, you build the foundation together, one works on the roof, the other works on the windows and doors, you study each others work, identify the problem and fix together.

That is one interesting thing about being in a relationship with the right person.

When you try to grow alone there is always going to be a time where you would think you need much effort to grow, especially when you want to overcome something, and in doing that you end up thinking that you have to be alone to succeed.

I realized that in those moments, we actually need someone to help us overcome whatever we are going through, most battles are won with the strength of others and you can only do that when you decide to grow with the right person in your life.

.....................STOP THINKING THAT BREAKING UP IS ALWAYS THE RIGHT CHOICE TO MAKE,

you don't easily find treasures sent by God into your life.

I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TO WRITE BUT MY LITTLE ADVICE TO MY YOUTH BROTHERS AND SISTERS.

#SERVERIGHT☺️